The Best Handjob You Can Ever Get

When it comes to handjobs, some people see them as a dumpster sex act. You know, the girl doesn’t want to do anything more involved, but wants to thank you for dinner, so a handjob it is. But once you’ve had the best handjob of your life, your perspective on getting jerked off changes pretty darn quick.

So what makes a handjob a best handjob?

Lotion Handjobs Rule

Adding a little lotion to the handjob can go a long ways. It can extend the climax or orgasm, while also serving to give more control to the girl giving the handjob. Make sure to use a higher quality lotion, or, coconut oil, so as not to upset his skin.

You can’t use too much lotion during a handjob.

Play With Balls

The balls are often a forgotten part of the handjob stimulation experience. We aren’t sure why, but girls sometimes just forget about them, or don’t know what to do with them.

If you are using lotion, lather the balls up first. If the balls remain dry, lightly glide your fingernails across them. Show them attention and your man will be darn happy.

High Grip vs Low Grip

The high grip is for making him explode, the low grip is for prolonging. If you use a high grip too early, it may result in an unintended quickie handjob. If you use a low grip too long, he may never cum.

This is because the sensitive part of the dick is the head. The more head your hand interacts with, the more stimulated he becomes.

Rough, BDSM Style Handjobs

For some guys, they like it rough. Even in their handjobs. To me, there is nothing better than a sensual handjob, but hey, I’m not everyone.

The BDSM handjob is a rougher style handjob that can offer up pain, and even limit how much and when the guy cums. It can be a minimal tantric experience, or much more dark.

If your guy enjoys it rough, you never know, he may be down for a rough handjob.

Talk Dirty

The handjob is the perfect opportunity for erotic talk. In fact, talking dirty during a handjob can heighten the experience a great deal. And, it can help grow your sexual energy with your partner beyond just handjobs. Lots of couples have a tough time talking about sex, unless it’s when they are experiencing pleasure. Clearly, a girl can’t talk very well when she’s giving a blowjob. A handjob is so casual, it makes for a great time to deploy erotic communications.

The best handjob you’ll ever get or give may use lotion, allows for erotic talk, and works in the balls. But nothing beats an upbeat and fun attitude by both the giver and receiver of the handjob. So bring that smile and energy and dirty mind as you unzip his pants on the couch. You’ll really increase the fun and pleasure by more than you think.